Phaedra Parks wrote the book on how to be a Southern Belle. The Real Housewives of Atlanta star has seen her ups and downs — but the subtitle of her book, Secrets of a Southern Belle is key: “How to Be Nice, Work Hard, Look Pretty, Have Fun, and Never Have an Off Moment.” Or maybe at least never let anyone see you having an off moment. Here are a few very much “on” moments for Phaedra. Of course, for more, The Real Housewives of Atlanta airs Sundays at 9pm on Bravo.