Eclectic actor James Spader (The Blacklist, Age of Ultron) isn’t married but he’s been with his domestic partner Leslie Stefanson since 2008. Spader was married once, to decorater Victoria Kheel. Story has it they meet at a yoga studio in New York in the 1980s. They married in 1987, had two sons, and then divorced in 2004.
Spader met Stefanson on the set of the 2003 film Alien Hunter. They have one son, Nathaneal, who is 6 years old. Stefanson hasn’t acted since Alien Hunter. She now makes cast bronze and terracotta sculptures. Much of Stefanson’s bronze work features women masturbating. Spader’s kinky lead in Secretary
