Bianca and Nick Bowser live with their two sons Kai, 3, and Pax, 17 months, in Kentucky. Bianca was born a man while her husband Nick was born a woman–in the traditional sense, anyway. They work at anightclub in Louisville where Nick is the manager and Bianca is a performer. Bianca had planned on the gender reassignment surgery, went through the final therapy sessions, and then she met Nick. They fell in love and got married. Because they both had their original sex organs, the two decided to conceive naturally with each other. Nick delivered both sons by C-section.
Of the months carrying his children, Nick said it “was probably the darkest time in my entire life. My brain was telling me that I was one person.” He added, “It was a daily struggle between mind and body. I didn’t want to leave the house.” But seeing Nick with his children now, you wouldn’t know the struggle he experienced. The Bowsers tell their story on 20/20 on Friday, January 16 at 10pm.